At Flowers by Anya, we believe every bloom carries a story and few floral traditions are as timeless and refined as the buttonhole, or boutonnière. Once a mark of elegance and status, the boutonnière has evolved into a cherished detail for weddings, formal gatherings, and moments where sophistication blooms.
From Symbolism to Style
The word boutonnière comes from the French for “buttonhole,” quite literally describing its placement on a jacket’s lapel. Yet its origins stretch back centuries. In ancient civilisations, flowers and herbs were worn not only for decoration but also as talismans, believed to ward off evil spirits or bring good fortune. Warriors in Ancient Greece, for example, would pin fragrant herbs and blooms close to their hearts before battle a sign of courage, strength, and hope.
The Gentleman’s Touch
By the 16th and 17th centuries, buttonholes were embraced across Europe as a sign of refinement. Dandies of the Victorian era made them an essential accessory, often choosing blooms that symbolised loyalty, love, or prosperity. A red carnation, a white rose, or a sprig of lily of the valley carried meaning as much as beauty. To wear a boutonnière was to communicate without words.
A Wedding Tradition
It was in weddings, however, that the boutonnière truly found its home. Grooms began wearing flowers to match their bride’s bouquet, a symbol of unity and devotion. Traditionally pinned to the left lapel, close to the heart, the bloom became both a visual and sentimental link between two people.
Modern Elegance
Today, buttonholes are far more than a tradition, they are a statement of style. At Flowers by Anya, we design bespoke boutonnieres that balance luxury with personality. From classic single-rose buttonholes to contemporary creations with orchids, succulents, or seasonal accents, each one is crafted to complement the overall look and occasion.
A particularly modern take is the pocket boutonnière, sometimes referred to as the floral pocket square after the tailoring term for a suit’s chest pocket. Rather than being pinned through the lapel, these designs are arranged within a slim holder that slips neatly into the pocket, creating a refined cluster of blooms that mimic the look of a traditional fabric square.
This style opens the door to a new level of creativity. Imagine delicate orchids and sprigs of greenery layered like a miniature garden, or a structured arrangement of roses, berries, and foliage that brings depth and texture to a groom’s ensemble. The pocket boutonnière allows for bold colour palettes or subtle tonal harmonies, depending on the overall styling. It offers not only a modern alternative to the traditional pin, but also a chance to transform a small floral detail into a striking statement of individuality and elegance.
Timeless Detail, Lasting Impression
Though small in size, the boutonnière holds centuries of history within its petals. From ancient warriors to modern grooms, it remains a symbol of honour, love, and refined taste. And while fashions may change, the power of a single bloom worn close to the heart endures.
At Flowers by Anya, we take pride in bringing this timeless tradition to life with our signature artistry. Because luxury isn’t only in grand gestures it’s in the exquisite details, too.
Pro Tips from Flowers by Anya
- Lapel vs. Pocket: Choose a traditional lapel boutonnière for timeless elegance, or a pocket boutonnière for a modern, fashion-forward look.
- Coordinate with the Bouquet: Select blooms that echo or complement the bridal bouquet for a beautifully cohesive style.
- Think Seasonally: Seasonal flowers not only look their best but also hold up longer throughout the day.
- Keep it Fresh: Request professional wiring and hydration techniques from your florist to ensure your boutonnière stays flawless from the first photo to the last dance.
- Personalise It: Incorporate a favourite flower, a symbolic bloom, or a colour that reflects your personality for a bespoke touch.
Ready to Create Yours?
Your boutonnière should be as unique as your story—whether it is a romantic symbol of unity on your wedding day or a statement of timeless gentlemanly elegance. At Flowers by Anya, we bring tradition and artistry together in bespoke designs that reflect who you are and the occasion you’re celebrating.
Planning your wedding? Book your consultation and let us design the perfect floral detail to complement your love story.
Seeking refined style? Enquire today to commission a classic or pocket boutonnière that embodies sophistication at its finest.
Anya x
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